Showing posts with label people to know. Show all posts
Showing posts with label people to know. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Even when you know it's coming (A eulogy for Jim Foglesong)

Last night while I was sleeping, the man who laid the framework for everything I know about the music industry breathed his last.  Today, there is a sadness in my heart, even though lately there had been no doubt in my mind that this day was coming and coming soon.

I met Jim Foglesong, whom I and many of my friends refer to as JFo (He smiled the biggest smile I'd ever seen from him when I asked if he minded us calling him that.), in the Fall of 2007.  He taught my Survey of Music Business class at Trevecca, a class that held the vast majority of the people who star in my fondest memories of my college years.  It took me a whole two weeks to look the man up on Wikipedia, and the results led me to do the same for each and every one of my professors.  You see, what I didn't realize was that I was basically being taught Music Business by the man who made the Business what it is today.  Let me just give you a brief overview of what he did for the Industry (as quoted from Wikipedia):
Foglesong helped lay the foundation for the new country music boom in the 1990s. As president of Dot, ABC, Capitol Records and MCA, he signed popular artists, among them Barbara Mandrell, Don Williams, Garth Brooks, Donna Fargo, Reba McEntire, the Oak Ridge Boys, Con Hunley, George Strait, Tanya Tucker, Sawyer Brown, Suzy Bogguss, Kevin Morris. Foglesong was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame in 2004.
My class found the late afternoon (read: directly preceding dinner) scheduling of Professor Foglesong's Tuesday/Thursday class difficult to focus through, despite his amazing credentials.  As a result, we spent a good deal of time chatting with each other over instant messenger, but our classroom was always full of laughter, and I think that's how he liked it.  I never once kidded myself into thinking that he didn't know what was going on in his classroom, but he never mentioned it.  Instead, he threw anecdotes into his lectures to keep us on our toes and pop our heads up from the glow of our computer screens.  He'd talk about his life in his younger days, and we suddenly realized that he wasn't just the grandfatherly gentleman we saw in front of us, who dressed up for class and encouraged us to do the same.  He was a real person who really lived.

Though I knew Jim was the former president of many record labels, the only time that really affected our relationship was when I was applying for internships and jobs.  All the other times, he was simply JFo, and I was Miss Royster (sometimes Anne).  We'd always stop and talk to each other when we crossed paths in the hallways of the music building.  He always had time for me, and that taught me to always have time for him.

When I went to ask him if it would be okay if I came to our Survey of Music Business II class a bit late on Thursdays, though, I was still nervous.  I didn't want to disrespect him, but I was in a bit of a pickle.  I worked at my internship (which he helped me to get, by the way) until closing time; in other words: until 10 minutes before class started.  With most of the record labels actually being in the next suburb over, it was impossible for me to safely make it back to class on time, and I felt even less comfortable asking my boss to let me leave early.  So I approached JFo.  I don't remember exactly what he said to me after hearing my well-rehearsed plea, but I do know it went something like this:
JFo: So, you're asking if you can come to my class late?
Me: Yes, sir.  But just on Thursdays.  I hate to ask it, but I don't know what else to do.
JFo: Miss Royster, I trust you.  You're a hard-worker, and I know you'll get the notes.
Me: Thank you.
JFo: Furthermore, wouldn't it be a bit silly for me to penalize you for going out and doing what I'm teaching you to do?
I love that man.

Foglesong, on being inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame

In the years to come, I'd find myself missing classes with Prof. Foglesong.  I missed the regular contact with him and learning about his life.  I missed the familial atmosphere that came from spending so much time there with people all intent on the same goal (becoming big-shots in the Music Industry).  I missed the subtle dousing of invincibility he gave us.  Of course we could conquer the Business.  He was teaching us; he believed in us; he was for us.  How could we fail?

When Foglesong began retiring from teaching at Trevecca, I felt it sorely.  No more were the days of hallway conversations.  Though he did still attend most of my concerts and recitals, it wasn't quite the same.  We knew why he wasn't at Trevecca anymore.  His health was becoming an issue, and it was showing.  That didn't stop me from secretly hoping he'd come good on his promise from Survey I: That'd we'd all gather for our 50th reunion in that room, and he'd come in and tell us what a wonderful job we were doing (despite being in his mid-80's when he started teaching us).  Basically, he promised to be our Mr. Feeny.  I really wanted that to be true, silly as it was.

There came a time when I no longer believed I belonged in Music Business.  I began to doubt myself and my abilities in the field.  I saw my friends around me heading for stardom, and I felt nothing more than mediocre, acing the tests, but failing in the practical application.  It was in that season that I got a call from Prof. Foglesong: a call of encouragement.  He was calling to tell me he'd personally nominated me for an award in his name for excellence in the field of Music Business.  He believed in me enough to forever have my name associated with his.  Even typing that now, the levity of his action brings me to tears.

But I do not cry for Jim.  No.  Not at all.  Jim Foglesong was a man of G-d in every thing that he did.  His faith was at the core of who he was, and it radiated out from him.  He was forever loving on everyone he met, forever thinking of the people around him, forever reminding people to be honorable simply by his actions (and occasionally in word for the particularly stubborn case).

No, I cry for me.  I cry that I will not see his smiling face again for a long time.  I cry for the world, for how many people will never have the chance to be personally blessed by him.  I cry for his wife, for her monumental loss.  But I do not cry for Jim.  He is in Heaven now, and I have no doubt that he's singing his heart out.

Monday, October 22, 2012

If you're here on Alex and Vera's suggestion...

Let me guide you to my experiences in Bulgaria!

Our tour around Sofia

Walking around Pravets and Botevgrad

My (rather long) reflections on the goings-on at the orphanage

Photos of the school kids

A repost of something from Alex's blog

My suggestions of travel arrangements and other attempts at a non-emotional reflection (as if that's actually possible... haha)


If you are NOT here because of Alex and Vera's suggestion, let me recommend that you go visit their blogs on my suggestion.  They are two amazing missionaries, living in Bulgaria and working with an astonishing number of children, as they try to supplement the amount of love and care they receive each day, while exposing them to the Love of G-d through their actions and daily lives.

You can hear from Alex here.

You can hear from Vera here.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Names you should know: John Schanck

Recently, my cousin John started getting some jobs in his ideal field, acting, and I couldn't be more thrilled for him.  I know I haven't even figured out my ideal field, let alone gotten a job in it (as far as I know... since I don't know what it is, maybe I have!), so for him to be doing this is a pretty big deal, I think.  I'm so stinking proud of my cousin that it hurts.

Well, back in January, he got a role in a short, student film, went on location, and got it all shot.  Today, I got to watch the whole thing, and I must say, I was pretty impressed.  Normally, I can smell this kind of ending from a mile away (Sorry, if you know my movie-predicting habits, I may have just ruined this for you.), but I did not seeing this ending coming.

So, here's what I would suggest:  Take a moment to watch the trailer, then make some popcorn, grab your friends, and enjoy.  

(Just so you know, this movie would be rated PG-13 for language, given this reason as found on the CARA website: "A motion picture’s single use of one of the harsher sexually-derived words, though only as an expletive, initially requires at least a PG-13 rating.  More than one such expletive requires an R rating, as must even one of those words used in a sexual context.")

Now, without any further ado, I am absolutely ecstatic to present:

The Whispers in the Walls

Directed by Isaac Ruth

Starring John Schanck and Nicole Cinaglia




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This movie has been posted with permission from the director.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Names you should know: Alexandria Alspach

My friend Alex is pretty amazing.  There are two of them actually, and they're both pretty amazing, to tell you the truth, but this time, I'm talking about the girl Alex, not the boy (but if you want to know more about why he's so amazing, you can click here.)

Anyway, Alex the girl has always had a heart for missions.  In fact, I met her because of my first trip to Germany, which we made together, although the only thing I can really remember of her from that is noticing that we used the same type of makeup.  Luckily, a much better friendship has bloomed since then.

The Germany crew in the Frankfurt airport
Left to right, Back: Me, Jonathan, Michael, Emily, Caleb
Front: Francis, Jenny, Carrie, Alex, Buffy

Since then, Alex has worked her fingers to the bone and given up countless hours of sleep to complete college and graduate with a B.S. in Special Education, and now is packing up her life and moving to Bulgaria in order to work in an orphanage focused on children with special needs.

Like I said, this girl is amazing.

Anyway, I'd like to encourage you to check out her blog and her donation page.  She's going to need a pretty decent amount of money to get started over there, so let's help her out.  I mean, really, how can you turn down this face: 


Check her out.  Subscribe to her blog.  Send her some love.

Love you all!

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